In crisis? Veterans Crisis Line — call 988, press 1 or text 838255. SUAS is not emergency care.
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For families

Families often see the warning signs first

SUAS helps trusted contacts support veterans with consent-based alerts — limited, respectful, and never a substitute for professional care.

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Support without guessing

Clarity when the veteran chooses to share

You may notice sleep changes, withdrawal, or stress — but not know what to do. SUAS guides supportive action without turning you into a case manager.

Warning signs, not secrets

When enabled, summary-level updates help you respond early — without accessing full clinical records.

Consent-based alerts

Notifications follow the alert levels the veteran set. You will not be flooded without permission.

Guided supportive action

Focus on steady presence, listening, and connecting to resources — not fixing everything at once.

Respectful boundaries

Trusted contacts cannot see everything. Visibility is defined by the veteran, per person.

Your role in the circle

How trusted contacts participate

You are part of the circle — not the coordinator of care. SUAS respects what veterans choose to share, and keeps consent in their hands at every step.

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Veteran invites

Family member added to the circle.

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Sets visibility

Summary only · no full journal.

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Chooses threshold

Alert at yellow or above.

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Can pause anytime

Consent stays revocable.

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When you're not sure what to do

Three things that genuinely help

You don't have to have the answers. Most support comes down to presence, listening, and connection — and SUAS helps you know when to lean in.

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Be present

Show up consistently. A short check-in or a shared meal says more than advice. You don't need the right words — you need to stay.

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Listen first

Ask open questions and let answers breathe. Reflect back what you hear instead of rushing to solve. Listening is the support.

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Keep the circle warm

Isolation grows in silence. Help keep your veteran connected to the people and routines that matter — gently, without pressure.

If someone is in immediate danger, contact emergency services or a crisis line right away. SUAS is a support-coordination tool and does not replace emergency care. Veterans Crisis Line: 988, press 1 (text 838255).
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Connect with SUAS

Reach out about a veteran you love

Tell us a little about your situation and how you'd like to be involved. A SUAS team member will follow up. This form is for coordination and questions — not emergencies.

We typically respond within a few business days. Prefer to reach out directly? Email jacobsilver@suasqrf.org · (925) 727-6109.